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Chastity Simplified

I learned about chastity right about the time I started to explore my Domme side. I was talking with a sub and he mentioned owning a cock cage but never really getting a chance to use it. He was traveling for work and could wear it while out on the road. After that first day,…

Financial Domination

I had been thinking about this post for a bit and was planning for it to go in a different direction but I’m in a certain head space today and this is my blog, so tough. There are many reasons why findom is a particular kink of mine. Those that…

How I Switch

I’m not going to go into my entire history with BDSM but I do want to talk a bit about my relationships and how this whole thing works for me. I’m going to explain it a bit like a hierarchy, as that’s the easiest way to start. My boyfriend is…

BDSM and Mental Health

Let me start off by saying BDSM should never be a substitute for therapy. Is engaging in BDSM practices therapeutic for some? Yes. But if it is being used as such, it should be under the guidance of a licensed professional. With that out of the way, let’s begin at…

The Collar

This is about the collar. What it means and its significance within the BDSM community. The closest thing that comes to symbolizing a collar in the vanilla world would be a wedding ring. But I’m not sure that even that is quite the same. If submission is the greatest gift…

Balancing BDSM and Vanilla Life

You’ve tried to hide it. To pretend you’re no longer interested in BDSM. But the fantasies won’t stop. It’s all you can think about. So how can you balance your kinks, your BDSM, in your otherwise vanilla life? I could have also entitled this post “Benefits of Online-Only BDSM”. Here…

I am a Switch

Much like sexuality, I believe that a person’s nature within Dominance and submission lies on a spectrum.  If Dominant were on the left and submissive on the right, Switch would be smack dab in the middle. Dominant ————————- Switch ————————— Submissive I firmly believe that these are natural states of…