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Jealousy and Non Monogamy

How do you deal with jealousy and non monogamy? The first thing I often hear when I tell someone I’m in an non monogamous relationship is, “I could never do that. I’m such a jealous person” or “I can’t do that. I don’t like to share” We need to stop…

I Think I Was in an Orgy

I’m not sure how many people constitutes an orgy, but I think I was in one this weekend. So if you’ve been following my blog (which you totally should be by now), I talked about my first play party experience. We’ve gone one more time since I last wrote and…

Seeking Arrangements: Sugar Dating or Escort Service?

Seeking Arrangements. It’s a site for those, well, seeking arrangements. But what exactly does that mean? Whether you know about Seeking Arrangements or not, I bet you’ve probably heard the term Sugar Daddy or Sugar Baby. When we think of a Sugar Daddy, we often picture some much older guy…

My Ass Got Tagged

Part two of my 1st real play party. After my Domme scene, I needed a bit of air and my scene partner needed a beer. I went outside with my partner and got to meet more people that had showed up. I loved the open, friendly and welcoming environment. Some…

My 1st Real Play Party

Ever wondered what a play party is like? Well I attended my first real play party this past weekend and I’m going to tell you all about it! First things first, where do you even find out about sexy, kinky parties in your area? Fetlife! If you haven’t heard of…

ENM: Taking the First Step

If you’re curious about how my partner and I opened up our relationship and decided to become ENM, you can catch up on the story here. So now we’re ENM. We’ve had conversations about rules and boundaries. It’s sex only, just physical. Only at their place. Our home is just…

Ethical Non Monogamy: The Good, The Bad and The Ugly

In May of 2020 my partner and I made the huge decision to open our relationship and try ethical non monogamy. There’s been some hiccups and a lot of conversations but I’d like to give you a small peek into what it’s like. If you want to hear my partner…

How to be my Submissive 101

So you’ve already read my post on the differences between a community submissive, being under consideration and being owned. And now you’re curious about what it might be like to serve me specifically. Well buckle up. It’s going to be a long ride. It’s best to think about any D/s…

Genuine Girlfriend Experience

Ever been curious about what a girlfriend experience is, but were too afraid to ask? Now, a girlfriend experience can greatly very, so of course I can only speak to the types of experiences I offer. Many might feel weird or might be worried due to the transactional nature of a girlfriend experience. But with…

Where Have You Been?

It’s been about a year since my last post. Because, well, 2020. I could do a whole breakdown of all the things that happened over the past year, but frankly that would probably amount to a novella or at least a HBO limited series. What I can do is offer a few bullet points: I…