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Kink

Why I Love Impact Play

I admit it. I’m a sadomasochist through and through. And impact play is just… *chef’s kiss*. I started as a masochist. And something that I’ve learned about those who find pleasure in pain or find pleasure in giving pain is the initial “what the fuck is wrong with me?” thoughts…

How to be my Submissive 101

So you’ve already read my post on the differences between a community submissive, being under consideration and being owned. And now you’re curious about what it might be like to serve me specifically. Well buckle up. It’s going to be a long ride. It’s best to think about any D/s…

Deeper – Sissification

This post is a part of a series call “Deeper” where I take a deeper dive into specific kinks. I’ll give definitions and talk about the several different ways in which this kink can be explored in either a real-time or an online setting. For the sake of this post,…

Deeper – Cuckoldry

Learn the basics of cuckold play within BDSM.

Limits. Yes, You Have Them

What are limits? Limits are usually split into hard limits and soft limits. Hard limits are your absolutely nos. These may include things you have tried in the past that you never want to do again, or it may simply be things that you have absolutely no interest in. Soft…

But You’re Supposed To Be…

The phrase “supposed to” in regards to BDSM really pisses me the fuck off. You’re a Domme so you’re supposed to be mean. I’m a sub so I’m supposed to be a loser…. NEWSFLASH! This is bullshit. It’s ok if you fell into this trap, I did too at first.…

Sub Drop

You may have never heard of this before but if you’ve been in the scene, you may have very well experienced it and didn’t even realize. This specific post was spurred on because I broke a sub recently, or at least I thought I had before realizing that I may…

Finding the Right Domme

How do I find the right Domme? I was actually a bit surprised when I was asked this question three different times in the span of 24 hours. So I thought I’d add some of my advice. Now remember, take this all with a grain of salt. If you do…

What What in the Butt

Anal play! Let’s just put this out there in the open. If you are a male and you enjoy anal play, that DOES NOT automatically make you gay. Unless that dick is attached to a male. You can have your girlfriend peg you and you can still be straight. *Gasp!*…

Hurt Me. Please?

Sadism and masochism within BDSM.