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Switch

But You’re Supposed To Be…

The phrase “supposed to” in regards to BDSM really pisses me the fuck off. You’re a Domme so you’re supposed to be mean. I’m a sub so I’m supposed to be a loser…. NEWSFLASH! This is bullshit. It’s ok if you fell into this trap, I did too at first.…

How I Switch

I’m not going to go into my entire history with BDSM but I do want to talk a bit about my relationships and how this whole thing works for me. I’m going to explain it a bit like a hierarchy, as that’s the easiest way to start. My boyfriend is…

I am a Switch

Much like sexuality, I believe that a person’s nature within Dominance and submission lies on a spectrum.  If Dominant were on the left and submissive on the right, Switch would be smack dab in the middle. Dominant ————————- Switch ————————— Submissive I firmly believe that these are natural states of being. Sure, a Dom(me) can…