But You’re Supposed To Be…
The phrase “supposed to” in regards to BDSM really pisses me the fuck off. You’re a Domme so you’re supposed to be mean. I’m a sub so I’m supposed to be a loser…. NEWSFLASH! This is bullshit. It’s ok if you fell into this trap, I did too at first.…
The Collar
This is about the collar. What it means and its significance within the BDSM community. The closest thing that comes to symbolizing a collar in the vanilla world would be a wedding ring. But I’m not sure that even that is quite the same. If submission is the greatest gift that a submissive can give,…