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Online FinDom

Chastity

I learned about chastity right about the time I started to explore my Domme side. I was talking with a sub and he mentioned owning a cock cage but never really getting a chance to use it. He was traveling for work and could wear it while out on the road. After that first day,…

Financial Domination

I had been thinking about this post for a bit and was planning for it to go in a different direction but I’m in a certain head space today and this is my blog, so tough. There are many reasons why findom is a particular kink of mine. Those that…

The Collar

This is about the collar. What it means and its significance within the BDSM community. The closest thing that comes to symbolizing a collar in the vanilla world would be a wedding ring. But I’m not sure that even that is quite the same. If submission is the greatest gift…

Balancing BDSM and Vanilla Life

I could have also entitled this post “Benefits of Online-Only BDSM”. Here is my theory for why so many people choose the way of online BDSM. Someone who is naturally submissive is forced to be dominant in their personal lives and use online submission as a way to fill that…