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Limits. Yes, You Have Them

What are limits? Limits are usually split into hard limits and soft limits. Hard limits are your absolutely nos. These may include things you have tried in the past that you never want to do again, or it may simply be things that you have absolutely no interest in. Soft…

BDSM and Mental Health

Let me start off by saying BDSM should never be a substitute for therapy. Is engaging in BDSM practices therapeutic for some? Yes. But if it is being used as such, it should be under the guidance of a licensed professional. With that out of the way, let’s begin at…

I am a Switch

Much like sexuality, I believe that a person’s nature within Dominance and submission lies on a spectrum.  If Dominant were on the left and submissive on the right, Switch would be smack dab in the middle. Dominant ————————- Switch ————————— Submissive I firmly believe that these are natural states of being. Sure, a Dom(me) can…